Stephanie Lessmeier smiling outdoors on a wooden bridge.

If you’re here, chances are you’re someone who holds a lot. You think deeply, care deeply, and work hard to keep things steady. You push through even when exhausted, and that’s not working for you anymore. You may be high-functioning on the outside and quietly overwhelmed on the inside. I work with people who learned to survive by being capable, agreeable, or “good,” and who are ready for something gentler.

I don’t believe people need to be “fixed.” Nervous systems need safety, time, and the right kind of support to do what they already know how to do: heal. So many of us are completely drained of energy after dealing with the world being on fire on top of our mental health conditions, financial stress, all the -isms, queerness, neurodiversity, upbringing, and the harsh realities of our world. I want to help people regain their energy, thrive, and live vibrant, colorful lives.

Turning “What’s Wrong With Me” into “Oh, that makes sense.”
Stephanie Lessmeier, EMDR therapist and founder of Vibrance Counseling.
I’m Stephanie (she/her). I work with adults who learned to survive by being agreeable, capable, and really good at ignoring their own needs. If you’re exhausted and still trying to be “good,” you’re in the right place. 

I’m a fat, queer, ADHD woman who has done my own deep healing work. I’m a homebody and introvert who loves talking to people one-on-one. I love finding comfort in my body (cuddling is the best), compassionately allowing myself to learn new things on my own timeline, I get fixated on things in true ADHD fashion, and I am currently all about my pet frogs: Maeve, Rue, and Hex. I know what it’s like to over-function, doubt your worth, and feel like rest has to be earned. I don’t bring this up because our experiences are the same — they aren’t. I bring it up because I believe therapy works best when power is transparent and humanity is welcome.

Sessions are collaborative, curious, and paced with care. You don’t have to tell your story perfectly or know where to start. Come as you are, and we’ll figure it out together.

Bringing warmth, curiosity, and hope to the hard work of healing.

Vibrance Counseling is a trauma-informed therapy practice designed to help people move beyond survival mode and reconnect with themselves.  I chose the name Vibrance because healing isn’t just about managing symptoms or getting through the day. It’s about slowly returning to a sense of aliveness, safety, and self-connection. You’re allowed to be human!


More than surviving. More than coping.Vibrance.
I’m not here to tell you who to be. I guide you in reconnecting with your own inner wisdom and confidence. 
Self-trust
I’ll support you in taking meaningful and imperfect steps towards the life you want, while honoring the pace your nervous system can trust. 

Courage
We approach every thought, emotion, and survival strategy with curiosity rather than shame.
Compassion
We’re both human. You don’t have to have the right words, or the right emotions. Neither of us will have it together all the time. Show up exactly as you are. I hold space for both of us to be imperfect together.

Authenticity
We won’t settle for simply helping you get by. We’ll work towards helping you make lasting change, even on the days when it feels hard to believe it’s possible. 

Transformation
We approach every thought, emotion, and survival strategy with curiosity rather than shame.
Compassion
I’m not here to tell you who to be. I guide you in reconnecting with your own inner wisdom and confidence. 
Self-trust
I’ll support you in taking meaningful and imperfect steps towards the life you want, while honoring the pace your nervous system can trust. 

Courage
We approach every thought, emotion, and survival strategy with curiosity rather than shame.
Compassion
We’re both human. You don’t have to have the right words, or the right emotions. Neither of us will have it together all the time. Show up exactly as you are. I hold space for both of us to be imperfect together.

Authenticity
We won’t settle for simply helping you get by. We’ll work towards helping you make lasting change, even on the days when it feels hard to believe it’s possible. 

Transformation
I’ll support you in taking meaningful and imperfect steps towards the life you want, while honoring the pace your nervous system can trust. 

Courage
I’m not here to tell you who to be. I guide you in reconnecting with your own inner wisdom and confidence. 
Self-trust
I’ll support you in taking meaningful and imperfect steps towards the life you want, while honoring the pace your nervous system can trust. 

Courage
We approach every thought, emotion, and survival strategy with curiosity rather than shame.
Compassion
We won’t settle for simply helping you get by. We’ll work towards helping you make lasting change, even on the days when it feels hard to believe it’s possible. 

Transformation
We’re both human. You don’t have to have the right words, or the right emotions. Neither of us will have it together all the time. Show up exactly as you are. I hold space for both of us to be imperfect together.

Authenticity
We approach every thought, emotion, and survival strategy with curiosity rather than shame.
Compassion
I’m not here to tell you who to be. I guide you in reconnecting with your own inner wisdom and confidence. 
Self-trust
I’ll support you in taking meaningful and imperfect steps towards the life you want, while honoring the pace your nervous system can trust. 

Courage
We won’t settle for simply helping you get by. We’ll work towards helping you make lasting change, even on the days when it feels hard to believe it’s possible. 

Transformation
We’re both human. You don’t have to have the right words, or the right emotions. Neither of us will have it together all the time. Show up exactly as you are. I hold space for both of us to be imperfect together.

Authenticity
We approach every thought, emotion, and survival strategy with curiosity rather than shame.
Compassion
I’ll support you in taking meaningful and imperfect steps towards the life you want, while honoring the pace your nervous system can trust. 

Courage
I’m not here to tell you who to be. I guide you in reconnecting with your own inner wisdom and confidence. 
Self-trust
We won’t settle for simply helping you get by. We’ll work towards helping you make lasting change, even on the days when it feels hard to believe it’s possible. 

Transformation
We’re both human. You don’t have to have the right words, or the right emotions. Neither of us will have it together all the time. Show up exactly as you are. I hold space for both of us to be imperfect together.

Authenticity
This space was created intentionally for nervous systems that have been on high alert for a long time. Whether you’re navigating trauma, anxiety, people-pleasing, perfectionism, or chronic self-doubt, therapy here is about more than coping strategies. It’s about helping your body and mind feel safe enough to soften. We create enough safety for your body to recover from the constant stress, breathe, and come back online — so life can feel fuller, steadier, colorful, and more like yours again.

Sessions are collaborative, connecting, curious, and paced with care. You don’t have to know where to start. Come as you are, and we’ll figure it out together.

Connecting, deep healing, lasting transformation.
Less surviving. More living.
Come as you are
Come as you are
Less surviving. More living.
Less surviving. More living.
Come as you are
Come as you are
Less surviving. More living.
Maybe you've spent years navigating life by doing what you're supposed to do, taking care of everyone else, and pushing through whatever comes next. Therapy is a chance to stop navigating on autopilot. Together, we'll untangle what's been keeping you in survival mode, reconnect you with yourself, and discover what becomes possible when you trust yourself a little more.
You don't have to know where you're going. You just need a place to begin.