Hot Sex While Fat

 
 
 
Larger bodied couple cuddles
 
 

Sex Without Shame

 
 

You should absolutely be having the sex of your dreams!

It is a damn tragedy when we can’t work through our discomfort with our body enough to enjoy the hell out of sex. I bet sex isn’t fun. Maybe you don’t want your partner to see or touch your naked body. Maybe you dread sex so much that you avoid it. You can’t get out of your head, so you’re missing out on the connection of intimacy. Perhaps you can’t physically feel good during sex either because it’s so hard to feel in your body. Sex is empty and hollow, and you’re so sad about the experience you’re missing out on.

Maybe even while reading this you feel sad or disappointed that you are not having the sex that you deserve. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable and fun. It helps us feel connected and fulfilled. You should be able to forget yourself in it and take in the experience with your senses.

 
A fat couple hugs.

good sex demystified

Your sex life sucks because you:

  • Have trouble initiating sex

  • Get stuck in your head and aren’t present

  • Are uncomfortable showing your body to your partner

  • Feel disconnected to your partner

  • Aren’t getting enough pleasure

  • Feel embarrassed by your body

Together in counseling we’ll work out how to focus more on your experience of sex, and get you out of your thoughts and shame. You, too, can pay attention to the feelings in your body, and the feel of your partner’s body. Talk to yourself in a different way - choose different words to describe your body and experiences in your body. Start allowing yourself to feel comfortable in your body, connected to it and your pleasure. Our work will help you build a closer connection to your partner and your body, and change sex into a sensual, toe-curling good time.

 
 

Imagine the impact that good sex can have

  • Enjoy your body

  • Feel beautiful and sexy

  • All the pleasure of sex with no shame

  • Connection with your partner(s)

  • Increased confidence and playfulness

  • Being completely in the experience during sex

A fat woman lays on her bed.
 

When you get it, you get it! My clients report that after just a couple of sessions, they are able to have enjoyable sex and a meaningful connection with their partner during sex. They stop trying to avoid being seen naked and start living in the moment. Imagine the impact that good sex could have on your relationship with yourself and your partner(s). You might even become playful with sex, and seek it out!